I Need to Know How to Resolve This, It Would Mean a Lot to Me if Someone Could Help?
Question by Jade: I need to know how to resolve this, it would mean a lot to me if someone could help?
Okay so here it goes what my parents have done really is bothering me,
My mom walked out when I was 7, all the fighting and abuse, my aunt who was 16 at the time was staying there and pretty sure my dad and her were having an affair, my mom found someone at work got pregnant and didnt come back, she called cps on us though and i almost got put in foster care. It was always my dad, and my grandma and me( my grandma was and is a hoarder) and my dad would work all day. So 7 years go by and i run into my mom at walmart(i know sounds like some jerry springer story “I met my mom at walmart”, but I did and found out I had a sister and brother and I so badly wanted to be close to my mom because the only way I got through 7 years was thinking that she was dead, why else would my mom leave me in a abusive trash filled home, were my childish thoughts at the time. When I saw her I was mad, I was shaking. And I had so many questions; I got invited to her house to meet my brother and sister for the first time, it hurt me so bad inside. I wanted to be close to them and my mom so bad , i was 14 and a straight A student and wanted the giant hole inside my heart to be filled up by being close to my mom, I even started being someone I wasnt just to get close to her. My mom was a druggie and told me cocaine was more natural then pot. So you can see my life went spiraling downwards my dad got remarried had a kid and left me with my emotionally abusive grandma at 15. Its really screwed me up to this day they never include me in anything im the black sheep. I cant forgive my mom for what she said to me and how she treats my brother and sister and how good of a mom she is to them, but not me. I have so much pent up hate and rage in my heart and its affecting my life and its not as easy as someone telliing me to just let it go cause ive tried i need some advice please 10 points for the best answer..
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Answer by jl
My poor dear, you are right to reach out for help, but Yahoo answers is perhaps not the best place to find it. I’m not sure what to tell you though. In my own case, once I finished high school, I left and never looked back. How old are you now? It doesn’t matter in the long run though, because this pattern has been set and you will probably never feel welcome in your mothers home. I’m 56 and I agree you can’t just “let it go”, but you can surround yourself with people who value you as you are now. They took your childhood, don’t let them take the rest of your life.
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